Man demands faithful wife take paternity test while expecting, she leaves after discovering him using dating apps: 'She fell out of love with me the minute I asked her'

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    man sits on end of sofa, holding newborn baby
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    Nick @BigBicNick A whole family broken apart before it even started because this guy couldn't stop reading horror stories on Reddit and became obsessed with an imaginary scenario of his own creation
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    man sits on end of sofa holding newborn baby
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    I met my wife through a mutual friend. We were friends for a year or so before we both became single and decided we were compatible enough to date. We were together 2 years before we got married. I do not know what got into me. My wife is loyal, faithful, but I had been reading statistics about how many men are raising children that aren't their own and had absolutely no idea around the time she found out she was pregnant. We both wanted children, we weren't actively preventing it. About 3 month
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    Mother of Many @mdwfmom Replying to @BigBicNick Guys, you've got to stop listening to the bitter divorce men who never tell you about what horrible husbands they were.
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    Harumei | VA\VTu... ❤ @Harumeiji Replying to @BigBicNick given full context that he was on the dating apps and refused to let her see HIS phone .. hmm, projection cheaters do this all the time, I feel awful for the woman and child
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    Here is why she "went nuclear" as a lot of people said. As much as this hurt, I needed to hear it: ⚫ I had trouble trusting her our whole relationship, despite the fact she had never cheated on me or any exes. She's caught me snooping through her phone/ e-mail/work laptop before, and because she deals with privileged information, she says I open her up to liabilities with her clients. No, I have never found anything incriminating. ⚫ She has never hidden anything except work related things becaus
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    CHIMAMAKA BENAR... @Annaswthrt Replying to @BigBicNick The follow up messages are actually worse. He refused to pay for the paternity test, and he was cheating and actively dating other people while wanting his wife to come back
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    Sophie @sophiebbx_ Replying to @BigBicNick Dating just because you're “compatible enough" instead of actually falling in love?
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    AlaskaBird @AlaskaBird_ Replying to @BigBicNick The ick runs deep.
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    Cecilia @teddyeade Replying to @BigBicNick Having read the additional info in the thread, I call out - NARCISSIST. She is better off without him.
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    samus @beatrixsamus Replying to @BigBicNick Yeah he shouldn't have asked her but she could've tried to be a little more understanding and patient with him, that can be an emotional time for anyone
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    Barbara Albers @BarbaraAlbers11 Replying to @BigBicNick He broke that trust. Trust is everything. You can get it back, but she clearly didn't want. to. Not telling her why he thought that probably made her think he was thr one cheating, as that is usually the case.
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    PilgrimPathSeeker (B... ❤ @PilgrimPathSeek Replying to @BigBicNick She was already thinking of leaving but just wanted an excuse.
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    Ngamini Gatimu ❤ @Ngamini2004 Replying to @BigBicNick I struggle to see how he's the victim here. If it was a woman accusing a man of cheating many of the bros defending him would probably be all on his side.
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    Holly Grayle @HollyGrayle Replying to @BigBicNick Yeah, I don't think I could forgive that either. I'd never see him the same way again. Hopefully, he can focus on being a good father and learn from this.
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    Amélie @ANelson68 Replying to @BigBicNick That family was broken up before he started reading those horror stories!!
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    bigbang @1adimotesi Replying to @BigBicNick Sometimes the scariest monsters aren't outside. They're the ones we create in our own head. Trust once broken is almost impossible to rebuild.
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    8 Bigchapo @Chapo_NLA Replying to @BigBicNick I think it's best to treat your trauma before getting married, no woman has to put up with this tbh
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    stove Camden (Stove era) @iflyastarship sooo many of our social problems this decade come from people getting into such an algorithm feedback loop that it breaks their brains

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